Being sick can often be a worrying and stressful time particularly when the illness is of a serious nature, for the person who is ill and for their family and friends. At such times close ones are having to cope with their own emotions around the persons illness and communication can become a little strained as people put on a brave face.
Being ill can therefore be an isolating experience. Illness can often disrupt our sleep, make us tense and can cause pain. A simple massage will release endorphins, our body’s natural pain killers. It will promote relaxation and add to the quality of life of the sick person. Increasingly massage is being used in hospices for these very reasons.
For the elderly, physical touch, a basic human need, may have been reduced particularly if their partner has died. A simple massage can therefore bring much to the elderly as to those who are ill, remembering that massage can be an expression of care, love and acceptance.
The type of massage given will depend greatly on the nature of the illness of a sick person, or the state of health and physical strength of the elderly person. The clothed back massage on pages 150 may well be suitable or a simple face and foot massage from chapter three may fit the bill. It is important to discuss what the person would like to receive and what they feel comfortable with.
Remember that it is the quality of touch and the care and thought behind that touch that is particularly important at this time.
It may be that a seated hand massage which develops trust, communication and eye contact, is all that is required.
Gill Tree
Managing Director
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